WebKittyn Warbles
Friday, January 25, 2008
Pre Surgery for Me
Tomorrow I am going to be cut open by pairs of hands I have never felt and putting the trust of my exposed lung in a man I have never said more than 5 words to. Tomorrow my life will literally hang in the hands of one surgeon and one anesthesiologist as he goes in under my breast enough to take enough to give the lung guy, kidney guy, heart guy and disease guy each a piece.
There will be something sticking out from my lung for 24 hours doing the breathing for the lung. There will be discomfort, pain, heavy levels of narcotics and then the agonisiingly scary wait for results
When I was a child my dad had his spleen out. He was all brave and crap until he went into surgery and in his Book of Motmom he kept with him, we found his fears gently written in words of love to his family = just in case.
These are mine = just in case.
My mother - You dont like to believe you are strong but you are the backbone of the family. I could never hope to be 1/11111 of the mother and wife you have been. You deserved better than I. I remember when you used to sing You Are my
Sunshine to me as a child. I remember every wonderful thing you ever did for me and if things go wrong. this is entirely on me. There isnt a person in the world who could want or hope for a better and more loving mother/
My father. - I know all so well how you would be right here with me if you werent fighting your own battle. I could see the uyworry in your eyes tonight and it gutted me as you were stuck in your own room.; My whole life you have been my teacher, sparring partner, rescuer from camp and I remember the hugs and choruses of daddys little girl. I've let you down so much, daddy. ALl Id ask is one last chance to make you proud but if I dont get it plesdr know you were always the man no other man ever came close to.
Dale - never in 24 years has there been a best friend like yourself. How much you have selflessly given and done while asking for so little. I have let you down in many ways as well and perhaps you have always been deserving of a better best friend. Ive never really told you how much respect I have for your brain, talent, skewed way of thinking and warm generous heart. I love you bud, sorry I wasnt a better Bunky.
Templeton my rat cat.. I promised you you would never know sadness and lonelinesss as a cat. You came ftom a beginning of fear and mistrust and hurt, I swore you would never know anything but happiness., If something happens, I SWEAR to you Grandma will give you that home. You savcd me when Claude died, I love you my Tempy.
Ishnael, I'm sorry you came around to late. You are w wonderful loving kitten I think grandma already loves and you will never know a day of sadness.
Grandma Ruth, Grandpa Irv, Great-Grandma Mary, Babara and Doris.. I guess I am also in your hands tomorrow. I hope youve found the peace to forgive me for the selfish and disgusting person I was in my teens. I wish I could show you each how much Ive learned over the years. I ask for your guidance coming through this so I may make my father proud at least one more time and show my mother that she is truly the greatest person in the world. I treated all of you with no respect and I wish I could have that time back now.
Claudie and Catsby, as much as I love you two I'm not ready to cross the Rainbow Bridge to Everest yet.
And now with much love, fear, guilt, regret, hope and pain I shall post this, these last words of mine for January 25th 2007.
before my body is invaded my hands and tools.
I love all of you so fucking much.
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Webkittyn!!!
Sending Love your way from CA!
Much LOVEon 01/26 at 06:42 PM -
You’re in my prayers, Heatherlyn.
Bobby on 01/26 at 08:55 PM -
From one fellow dork to another - I’m wishing you luck in your surgery and hope for a quick recovery and strength just to have courage.
Thinking of you…
Hecticmom Undone on 01/26 at 09:51 PM -
Sending prayers for you and your family and loads of (((HUGS)))
Andrea on 01/26 at 10:03 PM -
Good luck and God Bless WK. Sending you all the love, hope, and prayers we can.
on 01/27 at 12:15 AM -
Sending good vibes and thoughts in your direction! I wish you many more days of breathing free and easy.
imaginary sarah on 01/27 at 02:13 AM -
I hope that you are OK.
thebluestbutterfly on 01/27 at 10:23 PM -
Holy crap, today’s the 28th and I’m just now seeing this. I hope hope hope hope hope things went well. Fingers are crossed for an extremely uneventful recovery.
Thumper on 01/28 at 07:35 PM -
Hope everything went well and you have a safe recovery.
Love old school Calypso.
on 01/31 at 05:56 AM -
Hey Heather, I really hate hospitals to start. I really hope you are doing better, I tried to call about 5 minutes ago to show my <3 and support, but I ended up chatting with your mother for a few to see how you were doing and you had passed out. I hope recovery comes well and you get better in health soon, I left my number, but im sure ill try contacting you before 9 o’clock tonight. Hope you enjoyed the flowers and the note that I sent from Chris and I. We all miss you very much and wish you the best of health. You’ve always been there for us, to escape from the real worlds bullshit to join you in a place where there is none of that, I appreciate everything you have done for me, and everything you did, I really do owe you. You’re in my thoughts forever Heather, and especially right now in your current condition. Thank you for being you and being there as a true friend to everyone, you really are a great person Heather.
Much love.
~Michael
on 02/02 at 05:07 PM -
Just read the news note from Oaklore on ToD. It’s been a while since I saw you guys :(
I just wanted you wish you all the health in the world and hang in there.
Get well Kali
Loky.
Loky on 02/03 at 07:58 PM -
hey kitty, long time no see....i hope you get to feeling better…
gimme a call if you feel up to it...(479)965-6603on 02/03 at 08:20 PM -
Here’s hoping all is well with you
(((HUGS)))
Andrea on 02/04 at 09:59 PM -
Anyone have any word on how she’s doing???
Thumper on 02/05 at 02:35 PM -
All the answers and up to the minute updates are in my blog.
Darkstar on 02/05 at 05:17 PM -
Well, I’m late to this party but I hope you are recovering nicely! XOX I had lung surgery a few years and I feel your pain.
I made a commitment to comment (blog 365 group) and I’m popping by to say hi! *waving*
Lisa's Chaos on 02/12 at 10:43 PM -
Wishing you a speedy recovery..I’m sure with the right attitude your heart/lung/overall health will do just fine. When I had lots of downtime after surgery I played games and met some cool people at this mmo community site. Granted it was just my tonsils but you get the idea
on 02/27 at 12:40 AM -
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